What You Should Know About Scattering Ashes

It is understandable to think scattering the ashes received from your Kennebunk, ME cremation service should be a straightforward affair. But seeing as it is a final funeral rite and something you might do only once or twice in your life, a bit of research is necessary. 

Here is what you should know about scattering ashes. 

How to Scatter Ashes 

There is no definitive way to scatter ashes. You can scatter ashes by — 

• Casting them into the wind 
  
• Letting the tide wash them away 
  
• Spreading the ashes over the soil in your garden 
  
• Making a circle in the ground and letting family and friends step into it and say a few words 
  
• Raising a toast with family and friends and let each person share a memory or short story about the loved one. Then scatter their glass of ashes across the ground or into the wind. 

These are some popular options and are by no means the only way. Scattering ashes can take whatever form you believe honors your loved one the most. 

You don’t have to scatter all the ashes at once either. You can spread them in various locations using different methods or keep some in an urn at home. 

You Need a Scattering Tube 

Whichever you choose, get a scattering tube (or urn). 

It is an ash scattering container that holds and helps you transport cremated remains but mainly gives you more control when scattering the ashes. This way, you can spread the ashes in a graceful and dignified manner. 

Furthermore, scattering tubes come in different sizes and styles, so there’s room for personalization. 

If you don’t have a scattering urn, you can exercise control by checking the direction of the wind before scattering. It will ensure the ashes flow away from you and everyone else. 

Also, hold the ashes at waist height. The ashes won’t blow back in your face if the wind suddenly changes direction. 

Who Should Scatter the Ashes? 

Anyone can scatter the ashes, as long as the estate’s executor is okay with it. The executor is responsible for ensuring the deceased’s wishes are followed to the letter. 

When there is no specific instruction on who should scatter the ashes, making it the next of kin is advisable. 

Alternatively, you can divide the ashes and give them to each guest to scatter. This is particularly an engaging option if the scattering ceremony is part of a memorial service. 

Everyone will feel involved, and each person can say a few words before letting go of the ashes if they wish. 

What You Should Say while Scattering Ashes 

Besides using discretion for appropriateness, there is no right or wrong way to say a few words while scattering ashes. 

You might include: 

• Some background about the deceased and the life they lived 
  
• A memory or story you will never forget about them 
  
• A rendition of their favorite song or bible reading 

The choice in timing and structure is also yours. You can make it a full speech by one individual, such as the next of kin, or a couple of minutes for each guest. 

After scattering the ashes, you can take photos to capture the moment. 

That’s pretty much everything you should know about scattering ashes. If you have additional questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to us. We provide cremation services in Kennebunk, ME, and are well equipped to answer. Call us or visit us here today.