How to Properly Scatter Ashes at the Beach
You should not just walk up to a beach and scatter a loved one’s ashes. Here’s a full breakdown of how to scatter their ashes in a meaningful and dignified way.
The ocean is one of the most popular places to scatter a loved one’s ashes, and cremation services in Portland, ME, often help families organize a meaningful scattering ceremony on a beach.
If you’re considering scattering your loved one’s ashes at one of Portland, ME’s beaches, we’ve put together what you need to know.
1. Check Local Rules
Every beach in Portland and Maine, in general, has its local rules and laws. Once you’ve settled on one to spread your loved one’s ashes, go through their local, state, and federal ordinances.
It doesn’t mean it is illegal, but you may need a permit, and some areas on the beach may be off-limits. And if it is a private beach, you may need permission from the owner.
Failure to observe the rules may result in a Class 2 misdemeanor, which could be a fine or time in jail. Checking the local laws beforehand will keep you safe and better prepared.
2. Get a Scattering Tube
It’s not category N necessary, but if you intend to scatter ashes on the beach, getting a scattering tube is a good idea.
A scattering tube is a cylindrical container made of cardboard. It makes it easier for anyone to scatter ashes without wastage. All you have to do is pour the cremains out of the plastic bag and into the tube.
You can get it from any Portland funeral home. There are also urns made specifically for scattering if you want something to remember your loved one by after.
3. Have a Scattering Ceremony
Also not necessary, but advisable. You can have a scattering ceremony with close friends and family members. It can be just you and your religious advisor.
It can involve poems and bible readings, music, and eulogies. Or nothing. A scattering ceremony can be a formal or informal ceremony. The exact shape and form depend on you.
When planning the scattering ceremony, consider hiring a photographer or videographer to capture the event. This is better than leaving it up to an attendee who may want to say goodbye to the deceased without distractions.
Also, remember to check the weather and tide charts. It will help you pick a day with clear skies or let your guests know the right thing to wear.
4. Check Wind Direction
When you are ready to scatter the ashes, track how the wind is blowing. Use this to pour the ashes in a way that won’t blow back at you or toward your guests.
If you don’t have a scattering tube and are unsure of the wind’s direction, scatter the ashes at waist height. This will guarantee that it won’t blow on you or the attendees, even if the wind blows the ashes in your direction.
Alternatively, you can dig a shallow trench in the sand. It can be the shape of anything, a circle, a heart, or the deceased’s name spelled out.
Then spread the ashes into the trenches. Make sure the trench is close to the ocean. When the wave washes over the sand, the water will take the ashes with it.
That’s how to scatter ashes on the beach properly. Contact us if you have additional questions or need a cremation service in Portland, ME. You can call us now or visit us here. We are here to help you.
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